Comments on: Why We Should Expect Way More of Our Teens https://teach4theheart.com/why-we-should-expect-way-more-of-our-teens/ support & community for Christian teachers Thu, 21 Mar 2019 13:42:30 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.4 By: Linda Kardamis https://teach4theheart.com/why-we-should-expect-way-more-of-our-teens/#comments/57487 Thu, 21 Mar 2019 13:42:30 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=1439#comment-57487 In reply to Mary.

I think you misunderstand the point of this article. The point is that teens are capable of much more than people usually give them credit for. 🙂

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By: Mary https://teach4theheart.com/why-we-should-expect-way-more-of-our-teens/#comments/57368 Wed, 20 Mar 2019 19:25:58 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=1439#comment-57368 This is so dumb, it’s not teens fault, and also none of your examples are credible because it was a completely different time with different circumstances. Just because we aren’t given the opportunity to run things doesn’t mean we can’t.

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By: Michael https://teach4theheart.com/why-we-should-expect-way-more-of-our-teens/#comments/1793 Sat, 11 Apr 2015 14:49:09 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=1439#comment-1793 I agree with much of what you say but the answers aren’t as simple as looking back in the past. We don’t live in the same world as pre-Civil War teens you talk about, and there is no way we can expect any child to have some of the same experiences that you cite, especially in battles and war. We need stronger expectations, but they have to be 21st century ones.

Further, I would argue that since we are all living to our 80s and 90s now there is absolutely no reason why a young adult cannot live at home during this period of what sociologists now call “transitional adulthood.” In most other countries of the world young adults live with their family until they marry. Again, even in the US it’s not the same world in 2015 as it was even 20-30 years ago for young people just out of college. A college degree doesn’t mean you are 100% set to go it alone and conquer the world anymore, especially if you have mega-student debts.

You say: “You’re twenty-five? Oh, so you probably are still living with your parents rent-free, casually deciding on a career, and wasting the best years of your life finding yourself, right?”

I think wasting the best years of your life would be settling into a 9-5 career at age 22 and regretting that you did not stop to smell the roses and then discovering what you really want to do when you are in your 30s, 40s, or 50s.

This is not to excuse the young people of today. They have an easier and better life than any generation in history. They don’t do enough and we can expect more of them. But these are complex questions; let’s not oversimplify them by relying on 20th century models of career and work and teen role model examples from the 1800s that no young adult could ever hope to understand or relate to.

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By: Linda Kardamis https://teach4theheart.com/why-we-should-expect-way-more-of-our-teens/#comments/1005 Fri, 23 May 2014 20:18:17 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=1439#comment-1005 In reply to MMS.

Awesome! sounds like you’ve got some great ideas!

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By: Diane Crain Humphrey https://teach4theheart.com/why-we-should-expect-way-more-of-our-teens/#comments/1004 Fri, 23 May 2014 20:01:58 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=1439#comment-1004 Love this!!!

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By: MMS https://teach4theheart.com/why-we-should-expect-way-more-of-our-teens/#comments/1001 Fri, 23 May 2014 17:34:07 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=1439#comment-1001 You’ve got me thinking about how I can expect more from my students, how I could train them in running certain aspects of the classroom, etc…

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By: Elizabeth Chapman https://teach4theheart.com/why-we-should-expect-way-more-of-our-teens/#comments/987 Thu, 22 May 2014 14:56:03 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=1439#comment-987 This is SO great, and you are SO right. Thank you!

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