Comments on: How Christian Teachers Must Engage the Transgender Question (and other controversial issues) https://teach4theheart.com/4648/ support & community for Christian teachers Fri, 14 Oct 2022 10:45:04 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.4 By: Jeanine https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/59480 Fri, 14 Oct 2022 10:45:04 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-59480 In reply to Anonymous.

Hi. Yesterday we were told on Monday we are getting a student that is transitioning. I will not be using pronouns anymore. I teach music and have the student twice a week.

The bathroom issue is the thing. I share a boys and girls bathroom with my teacher neighbor. She doesn’t want to make the bathrooms unisex and just have them go one at a time. I do not want to send a little girl into the boys bathroom because it is affirming the delusion. I think when it’s all said and done I will probably not have a job.

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By: Bryan Jones https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/59430 Sun, 07 Aug 2022 21:26:25 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-59430 Thank you. As someone who is going into the public schools, I struggled with how I would approach this. You hit the nail on the head and I believe your approach is the best course of action.

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By: Lucie https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/59091 Thu, 19 Aug 2021 06:34:19 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-59091 All I can say after reading this is thank you so much! As a student studying teaching and being in classes discussing our responsibilities to create gender inclusive classrooms, I began to question how I could vs how I wanted to respond to students questioning their identity. So many articles on the internet simply say to love, but never give any practical ways where we can still bring God’s truth into the situation. Such a good reminder that if we are following in God’s calling then the consequences don’t need to be an issue because He has us covered.

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By: Anonymous https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/35053 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 14:40:38 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-35053 In reply to Anonymous.

Totally disagree with you. And if teachers, who are also TRUE Christians don’t see anything wrong with these issues, than they don’t know what God’s words says, nor do they put HIS authority above social norms.

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By: Anonymous https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/35052 Sat, 25 Aug 2018 14:38:01 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-35052 In reply to Cynthia Weir.

We have a 2nd grader who is “transitioning” in our school as well. We were told we can still call him (“her”) by the nickname they used last year (which could be used for a male or female) so I will be doing that. I will also be trying NOT to use male/female references in that particular class. Where I am more concerned is the bathroom issue. If my own child went to the same school and was a of the opposite gender I would be concerned. Why is it that these families get to put everyone else in an awkward situation because of how this one child “feels” about who God designed them to be? It’s really not fair to the majority. It is like if I told the entire school that my son prefers to wear a B.B. gun to school. If he can do it, what message does that send to other kids? That it’s ok for them to do it too? (ie. other boys going in the girls bathroom)… I don’t agree with it at all and as a Christian teacher it really puts us in a strange position. We need to protect others from mental and physical injury. I feel bad for this boy who thinks he’s a girl now. I feel bad that his parents think it’s just the best thing ever! And,unlike the man who did the gender surgery, I hope they encourage this boy to see who he truly is in God’s eyes before it gets that far. Poor kiddo.

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By: Cynthia Weir https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/32185 Wed, 20 Jun 2018 18:02:13 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-32185 In reply to Janet.

It isn’t necessarily society that’s encouraging gay and transgender lifestyles. It’s the LGBT community themselves who are seeking to criminalize the Christian viewpoint, and make it unlawful for a Christian, pastor, or anyone to say anything other than something favoring the gay, transgender -sex change path. They are extending this big infomercial to all our young people–that this is the only way you can truly find sexual fulfillment, is to totally abandon all Judeo-Christian restraints on sexual behavior. And no, God does not condone homosexuality–it is an abomination to Him. Or homosexual marriage, much less rejecting the gender God created a person to be in a futile attempt to become what you can’t become.

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By: Cynthia Weir https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/32183 Wed, 20 Jun 2018 17:39:34 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-32183 In reply to Linda Kardamis.

I heard about a real situation where a teacher was instructed to address transgender students by their ‘chosen’ identity–pronoun, name, etc. This teacher struggled how to respond, and was given an ultimatum to address the students how they wanted to be addressed, or resign with pay over the summer, or be fired. So, is a teacher to go along with this p.c. ‘kindness?’ Or start looking for another job?

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By: Joannah https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/27456 Mon, 09 Apr 2018 08:03:23 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-27456 I am not a teacher but a Christian needing guidance around this topic. I found this via an internet search. You have been so very helpful to me, especially in giving a practical example of how to act with the Spirit’s leading. Bless you for your courage and encouragement.

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By: anonymous https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/21886 Thu, 07 Sep 2017 16:10:57 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-21886 I’m a school psychologist who will likely be providing individual counseling support to transgender middle-schoolers (as there has been a huge influx this year of kids with this issue). I am so conflicted as to how to respond. While I’m well able to provide a caring, loving, and compassionate environment to any student, and to give advice about social skills, depression, and anxiety, I’m not prepared to coach, advise, or endorse kids considering changing their gender. Other than suggesting that another mental worker in the office take all of these cases (awkward), I’m not sure what to do. I want to validate the very real feelings these kids have around their gender identity; but I do not want to lead them astray. Any other mental health workers in public schools facing this issue?

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By: Kathy mackintosh https://teach4theheart.com/4648/#comments/18750 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 16:53:49 +0000 https://teach4theheart.com/?p=4648#comment-18750 Just “stumbled ” on this website/blog and am grateful I was led here. There is such confusion around this topic and after watching Caitlyn Jenner interview 4/21/17 I believe our communities MUST keep dialogue going . We must seek how Christ wants his followers to deal with this issue.

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